Don’t Just Sit There! Start FINDING BALANCE

Society has a way of thinking what success truly is.

Is is exotic women, foreign cars, NFTS, or an absurd amount of crypto? Well, I would think I am set for life if I have all of those things.

But as of lately, you need balance.

Balance between getting drunk off your ass every weekend to mingle with women you will never see again to finding stocks that will keep financially sane in your office chair.

All I ever want to do is work my ass off since that is the quota for everyone in their early 20s, “ work hard now, enjoy later”. Sounds corny & cringe to an extent but everyone I see I don’t want to end up like has me thinking, I better start working like someone has put a bounty on my head.

Contrary to the fact, that working all the hard time seems very tiring because you just want a break from the world and don’t want to think about anything else.

I’ve been stuck in a mindset where I can’t relax because I am not where I am not in life but balance is what holds the mold together.

You can’t have a PB&J sandwich without one of the other. They have to go together or simply it won’t be the same.

I don’t have it all figured out but finding it will help me from falling into the ocean.

If you understood that metaphor, kudos to you.

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You Need To Hear This

Most people believe they have a lot of time on their hands. 

You don’t have it. 

Start your own company. Make a family for yourself. Take that journey. Make some cash. Assist others. Make friends with others. Purchase some land. Construct a home. Simply put, DO MORE. 

Before you realize it, your life is over.

Did not want to this to scare you but you anything can happen in life.

Everything you can dream of or wanted to be, make sure you do everything in one possible lifetime.

As Nike would say in every commercial they advertise, Just do it.

Wake Up.

– You didn’t do that workout. 
– That project you’ve been putting off. 
– That girl you haven’t asked out yet. 

All of them are minor LOSSES. 

To you, they may appear to be “nothing” today. 

You’ll notice one day when you wake up. 

Success Builds on itself. Failure has a similar effect.

Please don’t notice when it’s too late because by then you will be wishing of what you could’ve done.

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They All Watch

As the Nike slogan says, “ Just Do It” and also as Shia LeBouf says in the that one video of saying “Just Do It”.

We should be doing what we want to do. The reason for that is time is ticking away and you know tomorrow is never promised.

The chances you’re ready to do something new or invest in something new is 0 to none.

It’s human nature to do something for the first time & to not to be ready for something.

It happens to the best of us. So, whoever is not getting as many likes or comments on their blog posts or their content that they create, it’s alright.

Keep putting your work out there.

most people do not like or comment-

but THEY ALL WATCH.

That is right, we tend to watch work we see and not support. Whatever the case maybe, keep putting work out there. You will find your audience someday that it caters too.

I used to feel this way when it comes to putting out my blog posts. 1 view a day and it kept repetitive. I almost wanted to quit and never write anything again.

But, that’s not who I am. I am not someone who falls down when it gets tough. Just simply need to rethink the strategy of what I am doing wrong and how to rethink my branding of who I am as a blog. The more and more you write, it will find the people that needs to find.

Now, I am starting to get more views on my blog for someone who doesn’t have 100 or 1000s of followers on it.

People will watch & lurk regardless of the thing see do.

Eyes in the shadows watching & surveying our every move from afar without saying a word.

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Why Do You Do It?

It’s easily to be in the midst of everything that goes on in the world from your personal life to politics.

But one thing that’s certain is the way we do things.

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The question of why we do we do things that we do each and everyday. It’s on our minds from when wake up and when we go to sleep.

The word “why” brings a paradigm shift of a pattern we see everyday. You get the gist of what I’m saying now? We do certain things so we can be remembered forever.

The current moment that you’re reading this will inspire you to look at your everyday life and question what your life is compromised of. Is a boring 9-5 job you have been settling for a couple years? Is it going to college to get a degree? Is it working on skills that will help you in the future?

This relates to the purpose of life. Or should I say your purpose. There’s a clear chance that we do it because love to do it or to be remembered.

I can easily ask myself why I do things each and everyday. Do I like to ask this consistent question? Hell no. But it’s what keeps me going and how I perceive everyday life.

Whatever the case may be, you need to keep working on what you love do. There’s a saying, “ if you don’t build your dreams, you will be helping someone else build theirs”

Now.. hearing that makes me think, “Why would I spend my hard earned time doing that, this ain’t free labor” I’m trying to win from now till my last breath.

Never do anything for money, that will just push you back and make hot miserable. Materialistic items are never worth the investment for the long term.

I’d rather buy a Mcchicken cause I love to eat not to show off or to impress. But who am I sounding like I’m rich, it’s only a Mcchicken after all.

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You Can Have Fun & Be Successful

There’s a myth where you have to work all the time to see progression & results. Well, to a point that’s correct but also incorrect. We can’t spend all of time doing hard work because we will eventually burn out. That burnout will cause us stress and we will feel unmotivated to other things throughout the course of the day. So, the only option we have is to have fun.

There’s nothing wrong with having fun and living your life. Go out for a drink, talk to that girl, go jet ski. Whatever your definition of fun is, do it! Whether you’re 18,23, or 30. We see people wasting their lives away going for a dream. Now, it’s understandable for why they do that but they’re delaying their gratification. Cut yourself some slack. We aren’t robots or artificial intelligence.

Here’s a little episode from a podcast that shows my reasoning on why you need to take breaks & to enjoy life. It’s very possible to be successful and to have fun at the same time.

Click the link below & I’ll explain why it is:

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