The Life We Chose

Is this the life we chose?

Or did this life choose us?

Moreover, the story is still being written

Flying throughout the night like a Griffin

You would think that they’re hidden

I’m just kidding about the current bidding

All our stories are still being written.

Day by day is how we need to take things

Life is unexpected and we may not know what it might bring

It’s just a whole spectacle of things

Is this the life we chose?

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Have Some Damn Grit

Apparently, school can teach you some things that you need to know in life.

I normally don’t really use things I learn in school in my everyday life because they’re simply not applicable to begin with.

The word “Grit” is applicable though to every extent in the book. Let me tell you why:

The definition of Grit is passion & perseverance for long-term goals. Hearing that word is very familiar to the eye but very little make the word worth actually living. See, imaging Mario, the video game character.

He was always pursuing that girl like it’s some hot wings. He wanted to get her at any cost and by any means possible.

The thing with Grit is that people always want to see the SHORT TERM. This isn’t a terrible pyramid scheme. You will have to work your way up the ladder of life.

This isn’t a kiddy theme park with all the answers or a guide to tell you what to do with your life. It’s just what my personal take on Grit is.

I just want to work harder & achieve everything I want in this life and can’t be satisfied for a short term achievement.

The reason why is because I simply want more for myself and I believe I can get more for myself.

It’s not up to anyone else but myself and I have to stay true to myself and the plan I decide to take and the course. We stay the course for a reason and do the things we do for a reason as well. It’s to time to get Princess Daisy with hard work.

Be a Mario character in a world full of oompa troopas. Keep going until you truly get it.

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The Road Ahead

It has never occurred to me that I would’ve this many followers on this blog.

Making this blog in high school because I wanted to find another way to make money instead of the conventional way and thought to myself, “ is this really who I am?”

Well obviously that was high school me & now I am in college, I have learned what this truly means to me and what I am as a person. Allowing to get out what’s hiding in my head and clear out my head.

Nonchalant to Edgar Allen Poe in my writing style and expressing everything that’s deep in my heart. Obviously, I want more followers to read what I have to say and what input I want to give out to everyone who follows me. Engagement, value, comedy, life advice, the possibilities are endless with me.

Being a spectator of many blogs and doing what I know how to do best and create. I’ve seen a post about truly creating the life I want and nobody ever told me how much work and effort you truly want for a self sustaining blog with a lot of traffic and engagement.

This can show me that absolutely anything is possible in this world and I can’t even be better than Kevin Hart as I am funnier than Gottfried. Sorry if you’re reading this @gottfried, it’s the truth.

To laughs, wealth, prosperity, and to more creative ventures, the long road awaits.

I have always wanting to change my life for the better and get everything that I desire in this life time and it will happen.

Just put a block of cheese out there and I am bound to get it like the mouse I am, small in stature but bound to get it. Just watch me get to the top like my fellow bloggers and create something bigger.

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Living With Roommates

Living With Roommates.

Now, I am not dissing anyone who has a roommate, I just feel like I am living with little kids.

So, to each his own, it can be a blessing and a curse.

One day, there are a lot of people like a premier movie viewing and other days, its a desert.

Then, it feels like I am taking of barn animals.

Literal barn animals and it makes you think, “did someone really raise you this way?”

Although, I love these guys like they’re my sons.

Its never easy being the most attractive roommate, now, let me stop, I sound like a narcissist.

That’s what its like Living with Roommates.

Besides, roommates make life entertaining at times. Almost feels like I am at a circus.

No one trick pony’s over here.

Living With Roommates

While, they’re my people, I don’t see them at times.

It’s like putting my son’s out in the real world.

Let’s hope they take their backpack and Dora map with them, if you know what I mean.

Even though, they will always be my son’s, I will always have love for each and everyone of them. Except, the one that’s in a relationship. I might never see him ever again.

So, roommates aren’t too bad I’d say.

Yet, they still act like we live in a barnyard.

Seeing trash and dirt everywhere, yet, nobody wants to do anything about the situation.

Now, its a team effort at times but, its a group effort.

Guaranteed its always having people around but, space is needed.

Then, it seems like you’re on the FBI’s most wanted if you’re gone for too long.

But who’s business is that?

Nobody’s but yours. Now, if they harass you like a cop about it, you better not answer. But, if you do, good luck amigo.

The College Life

The College life.

A lifestyle I never thought I would experience.

Yet, I am here now.

Then, it has been a thrilling adventure.

Even thought, it might not be what I want, I want connections.

So, I am going to make the best of any situation.

Now, provide life lessons for all.

So, I can use them in the real world.

The College Life

Grades aren’t everything we make them out to be.

It won’t translate to the real world.

Now, do what the sane person would do.

Even though, people don’t listen.

Learn high value skills that are of importance.

Coding, web design, Google Ads, etc.

The College Life Experience

The college life is different for everyone.

See, college has opened my eyes to know it’s not really needed.

But, everyone’s opinion is different.

For example, I love self-learning and building.

Now, we must create something that will last.

College won’t do that for you.

Unless, you’re in a certain major for it.

So, do what you think is right.

Don’t listen to outside forces on a controversial subject.

Listen to the gut feeling.

Now, I am not saying to ignore.

But, you need to do what’s best for you in life.

That’s simply how it works.

Bend the rules a little.

Unless, you want to live a life you setttled for.

Create the environment and the life you want.

College may or may not do that for you.

So, you can get drunk now or do the dirty work.

Living the life you want was never easy.

Nothing good ever comes easy at all.

Now, it may suck but its worth the pain and sacrifice.

Although, everyone is different.

That’s what makes college so diverse for everyone.

I have to find my own path and do what’s best for me.

Now, I have a future to create.

More To Life

There’s gotta be more to life

It feels like a cutting edge blade aiming to the right

Moving swiftly enough like a thief in the night

But do we know what’s right?

That’s the key to life

To progress, pursue and seek

Like always fixing the end of the pipe that might leak

Finding each and every clue like hide and seek

Doing different things each and every week

Like a word jumping in the mouth of a birds beak

There’s gotta be more to life

Don’t hold things in strife

There’s just gotta be more to life

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I seriously can’t thank you guys enough for giving me 10 whole followers.

That’s more followers than I had last year and more friends than I have in real life, just kidding, or I might not be, who knows.

Anyways, I just want to thank everyone who follows my blog as I want to let everyone know I want to grow as big as 1000 followers someday and continue to grow my brand. This is a small step for me and a big step for everyone who follows my blog in the first.

This is better than getting a girlfriend and a Christmas gift as if I were 13 years old. Like smiling at the TV as if I were watching my favorite TV show with my brothers.

Me when I got 10 followers.

This is like getting my first gym badge at the Pokemon gym and I got 6 more gym leaders to beat. The point is, I will to continue to develop my personal brand and more content over time. Please let me know what type of content you would like to see from me. It’s only up from here!

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Psychology of Success

Psychology of Success.

Now, everyone has a different definition of success.

So, your definition of success might be different than mine.

Also, everyone has a different mindset on this topic.

Success is nearly the sum of our actions.

What you did yesterday, today and tomorrow matters.

But, what matters is, today.

Success doesn’t love comfort.

So, have a growth mindset.

It all starts with our behaviors and choices.

Choice to be better or worse.

So, choose to be better.

Program yourself to only win.

Consciously chose a path that determines your life.

Then, it will awaken our awareness.

Both individually and collectively.

Psychology of Success

Success of Psychology

Psychology of Success.

Everything in life is interconnected.

Relationships,work, and our lives.

All of this is on two sides of a coin.

Then, you see life differently.

Understanding it will get you far.

Next, you will apply it to everyday life.

Everything will feel so different.

Life won’t ever feel the same.

That’s normal.

It’s not meant to be stagnant.

Not everyone will understand.

Develop something that works for you.

Everyone works different.

Then, it will start to make sense for you.

Even though, you might not think it will.

Don’t allude to other’s ways of thinking.

So, think for yourself.

It’s harder than it sounds.

Just work.

In the morning, afternoon, and evening.

Then, you will see success at it’s true peak.

Our mind is stronger than outside forces.

So, we have to develop within first.

Then, everything else outside.

Eventually, we will see a pattern.

A patter that determines our lifestyle.

Interconnecting everything we see clear.

That’s life for you.

Although, this sounds like a lot, it isn’t.

Success means something different to everyone.

So, don’t get frustrated.

Time reveals everything.

We will see everything in due time.

That’s how success works in this lifetime.

Go to work.

Value To Life

We all need value to our lives.

It’s what makes life worth living.

I’ve decided to create value that will last me for decades to come and help others.

Value To Life is more than the name of my podcast, it’s what holds me together.

Got out of my comfort zone to provide content for those who need it.

Chasing my dreams like no other and creating is what I love to do.

I will not disappoint.

Go listen to my podcast, you will not be disappointed one bit.

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