You Need To Hear This

Most people believe they have a lot of time on their hands. 

You don’t have it. 

Start your own company. Make a family for yourself. Take that journey. Make some cash. Assist others. Make friends with others. Purchase some land. Construct a home. Simply put, DO MORE. 

Before you realize it, your life is over.

Did not want to this to scare you but you anything can happen in life.

Everything you can dream of or wanted to be, make sure you do everything in one possible lifetime.

As Nike would say in every commercial they advertise, Just do it.

Life As A Man

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I wanted to address what my friend Jack white said. A one of a kind email marketer, inspiration & even better person. If you have anything to do with e-commerce, life advice, email marketing.. I suggest you check him out.

He’s the reason for this post today. I keep reading it and realizing of how much sense it makes of what mental health struggles men go through in their daily lives.

Everyone expects men to go on w their life and be as strong as the eye can see but are they really? Men don’t speak as often as they need too and it hurts.

Men die from suicide at an alarming rate from this and at the end of the day it’s life.

This is the truth and the reality of it. We don’t understand why it happens that’s just what society tells us and how they expect us to feel when it does. We hope we can solve this narrative and get help for those who need it.

Anyone struggling with depression, anxiety or any type of negative thoughts, I am with you and will always be with you.

Wake Up.

– You didn’t do that workout. 
– That project you’ve been putting off. 
– That girl you haven’t asked out yet. 

All of them are minor LOSSES. 

To you, they may appear to be “nothing” today. 

You’ll notice one day when you wake up. 

Success Builds on itself. Failure has a similar effect.

Please don’t notice when it’s too late because by then you will be wishing of what you could’ve done.

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Opinions Of Others

The more successful you become, the less interested you are in what others think of you. Opinions become less and less important as you gain more self-validation through fulfilling goals.

Essentially, all you care about is what you can do to help yourself and those around you.

That’s what is the most important thing in this life, more important than anything materialistic and of money. You should want to be remembered for what you did on this earth instead of the money you make because at the end of the day, you can’t take it to the grave with you.

Nobody will care as much for the money you made, the cars you had, or your materialistic position. It will be about if you created an impact on the lives of others and those around you.

That’s what I’m striving for. So, the next time you worry about someone’s opinion for you doing something, block it out because it’s not going to be of importance to you.

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The Vivid Dreamer

As dusk starts to hit dawn, the vivid dreamer pictures what his life could be.

Picturing all the wildest possibilities of what could be but isn’t.

That’s because he’s the vivid dreamer.

Day dreaming endless possibilities of what his life could be by hard work & discipline.

Are you that vivid dreamer?

Dreaming what you could be but aren’t quite exactly there yet?

Well, I have news for you. We all are vivid dreamers.

There is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how dark it may seem.

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The Power of Dreaming Big

They say dream so big you can move mountains.

That’s exactly what you should do. Dream big as the eye can see. Positive speaking, mantras, affirmations all come with dreaming big and the desire of accomplishing a feat worth a lifetime.

If you’re not speaking positively in everything you do it’s embarrassing to yourself & everyone around us. We all know we can’t speak positive affirmations all the time & have to be realistic.

On the contrary, what’s the worst that can happen by dreaming big? As big as the largest building in the world & dream higher than Wiz Khalifa. Literally, he’s high as a kite everyday.

No matter the ethnicity, race, history you have, dreams are for the believers. The craziest people in history had dreams & guess what? None believed them. Now, some of the most iconic people in history & role models for some.

Have to put some work behind that prayer. If not, it’s just a thought flowing in thin air. Ask yourself these questions as you go through out your daily life,

Dream like you’re Peter Pan except you’re not in Neverland. As cheesy as this might sound. Have to keep on keep going.

Dream big as if you’re going to die tomorrow.

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Escape the Rat Race

Escape The Rat Race

According to Forbes magazine, on average at least 78% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. Which means, they rely on a paycheck to survive on a day to day basis.

See, that’s the problem. That statistic sounds awful enough and never want to be at that point where I have to work everyday just to barely make ends mean.

We have the power to make something for ourselves just from a laptop. All you really need is a laptop and a wifi connection.

I want to work as hard as I can these next few years of my life so I am not apart of that statistic.

Escape the rat race and create the life you want to live.

We were all made for greatness but we cannot become greatness itself if we don’t work hard enough. Create, create and create.

Create something that provide value to people’s lives will get you where you want to be in life. That’s how you will get ahead in this life.

It could impactful, entertaining, inspiring, etc. whatever the case might be just make sure it has value and brings value to the lives of others.

Do The Hard Things

Do The Hard Things

Life is a game full of surprises

Now, this headline might be a surprise for some and a wake call for others

So, what did you think life was easy? It’s a challenge you have to prepare for everyday

I say do the hard things because they challenge you

Challenge you to a point for you to decide to see if you truly want to do it.

Moreover, what’s the worse thing that could happen?

Only thing that could happen is you failing

Failure is us getting up again and pursuing

Do The Hard Things

There are a lot of things that are hard

For example, marriage is hard, a die is hard, giving up is hard, etc.

Choose your hard.

People always want to avoid things that actually make them a better person

Life will never be easy

Life will never be easy. We get to choose our hard.

Pick wisely and think thoroughly about it.

Even though, life is hard. It shows perseverance as a person.

Now, do the hard thing you have been putting off.

Then, apply to your own life or learn from it.

There are no losses in our life, just winning and lessons.

For instance, you can be nothing all your life and still be someone

I have been afraid of committing myself to doing the hard things for awhile

Continuously avoiding and protecting myself from the real world.

The reason for that is because I don’t like doing the hard things.

Meanwhile, there are people who are doing the hard things

The people who are doing the hard things are a lot further in life than those who didn’t do the hard things

Be someone who people won’t even recognize anymore

They wont recognize you anymore because of how much you changed

Changing from a caterpillar to a butterfly

Do the hard things.