So, you’re thinking how do I show up everyday? It starts with being consistent. For example, you have a daily routine that you do everyday and see improvements to your life. With those improvements, you’ll began to feel happier and feel better about yourself. Now, that’s a feeling that you need have. 1% better today than you were yesterday. Then, you’ll see important changes happening in your life. The best in the world do it.
Entertainers, entrepreneurs, athletes, CEOs, etc. Anyone in their respective field of work shows up every single day. Essentially, it’s the reason why they’re so successful. Feels like being lifted in the air like an air balloon.
At the end of the day, your motivation won’t be there every single second of the day. Even though, you may not feel motivated, you have to show up. Those goals and dreams won’t work themselves. NOBODY but you will do it.
Then, a couple of years from now, you’ll be happy. It’s the dream everyone works for and wants to achieve. A fulfilled life. Eventually, you’ll see the habits you did for your upbringing to this point.
A bad day from yesterday won’t do any damage to your future unless YOU make it.
The emphasis on “you”, shows it’s only up to us and us only. That’s how I feel about writing on my blog when I don’t want to.
So, I just jot down ideas and begin to type. Letting my ideas flow into the space until it all comes together.
Those ideas, dreams, future endeavors, you have are all possible.
With one simple concept
In conclusion to win and to see the rewards you truly want in this life.
Literal nothing. From hardships, being broke, out of shape, bad living conditions make it all so sweet. The pain we endure today is the reward we reap in the future.
It’s never an easy journey to get to the top but it’s well worth it in the end. You don’t need to come from a rich family or have all the resources to make it. You just have to have a unrelenting work ethic.
I have figured that overtime and still learning that to this day. We never know when our time is up or when we might pass. What I do know is that we are in control of our own destiny. We can control things that happen in our lives and how we chose to let it affect us.
Having that ideology in the back of your mind will get your very far in this world. Falling down multiple times and getting back up. You obviously know success isn’t easy or that it can be overnight. That rarely happens. I am still going through this and will continue to experience it as long as I live if I can recall.
The path through paradise is through hell.
This is where the power of gratitude comes into play. Things in your life could be worse but notice what’s going right, focus on only the positive that’s happening.
Focusing on the happiness will really set you free and it will change your life.
Don’t let any negativity, anger, or anxiety faze you. You are stronger than anything that is temporary.
Then, you will start to see a shift in your life and the things you do. For example, you might get mad at a test because you got a 60% and your friend got an 80%.
It feels like you failed the whole level of a video game with no memory card. You will dwell on that moment thinking, “How could I have done better?”. Each and every time that thought passes your mind.
The feeling will jump like static and you feel miserable. I come here to tell you don’t. Nevertheless, you can’t get it back.
This is what I mean to Become Untouchable.
So, you won’t have to worry about other outside distractions messing up your mantra and emotions. Deep within inside ourselves locks a true version of ourselves we want to release.
Then, we want to show that side to the world. Attack it head on like a lion. Fierce and powerful.
Never afraid of confrontation.
Therefore, don’t let something small get in the way. Like an annoying rodent in your home.
It’s way too easy to get thrown off about something bothering us. Life is too short for that.
Now, look at the bigger picture. So, you’re not angry at yourself for feeling a type of way. We always want to deal with inconsiderate things.
I used to be a victim of this. Even though I was, I won the battle.
It’s like the saying, you pick and fight your own battles.
The term I’m looking for is “stoic”. Essentially, never let any of your emotions get in the way of anything.
If You’re Not Where You Want To Be In Life, Why Are You Chilling So Much?
First, I do not want to come off as negative by saying this. Many people have mental health issues, family issues, etc. There are some things that are out of our control and you can only do so much. I don’t want to offend anyone with this. I do know that you can change your life with hard work, dedication, and discipline.
So, here’s the special question, why are we relaxing so much?
There can be plenty of reasons why we are and how we working towards our goals. It may take some people days, months, and even years.
Now, on to the real topic. If you’re just going through the motions of life, you need to stop relaxing and get a hold on to reality. Life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows or like a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
We always have to look at the bigger picture and get to work. There’s no reason to relax mid way throughout the year. There is always something to work on and improve upon. Never think you’re completely done yet.
Even though, I am telling you this, I am been a victim of this as well. I want to relax and enjoy some free time but I am still in my teens. If I relax too much, all the goals and aspirations I put out for myself will just blow by in an instance.
My goal is to deliver value and to change your mindset and of course your life. There is no better feeling at the end of the day with that. I know what’s possible and how it can be done. Always remember that there is work to always to be done. Work is never over.
If you’re constantly scrolling and not learning anything or creating you need to take a hard look at yourself. Nobody told me to start a blog for others and to help people. You know why? I took initiative and did it on my own. It may not be perfected to its fullest potential but at least I didn’t chill and wonder what would happen if I made one. Now, do you see my point? We only have so much time on Earth and we don’t know what could happen. If you have dreams and goals its better to reach for the stars instead of living a life full of regret.
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Be Unapologetically You
Being Unapologetically Yourself. So, you may be confused on what exactly this means. I don’t want to hop around like a rabbit and waste your time about this concept. Now, that got your attention, I’ll tell you right now. There’s way too many people trying to be someone else. Like a literal star wars clone. Then, those people want to mimic those certain behaviors. Although, copying of those we admire isn’t bad, it would be better if you were yourself. We are all different. Different names, skin, races, ethnicity,etc.
Moreover, people will love you for.Be Apologetically Yourself. Now, I’ll repeat myself like a concerned parent. Be Apologetically Yourself. Don’t fit in. Next, stop accepting approval. That’s what puts people down. Others approval and their opinions. Meanwhile, those people who don’t care are doing better than you in life. You know why? They don’t let the opinions of others affect them. Now, you see the problem, find a solution. We only have one life. Do not let it be judged by others.
Moreover, they shouldn’t care what someone else does in their life. That just takes the fun out of it. In other words, stop be forgiving of what they think. I get the whole stigma of taking advice from others but, some people are just bad energy. Learn how to kick it by yourself sometimes. We always won’t be at a camp fire with our friends and family. Even though, that might sound cliche, it’s true to an extent. Do whatever you please. Now, take in everything that I told you, and apply it. Life should be a like a Mario Game. Customizable and creative for the user. Moreover, that user is yourself. You. Nobody should ever tell you how to feel about yourself ever.
Everyone wants to be motivated. Motivated to be the best and do well in everything they do. Then, they want to take action. Next, is being able to say they completed the task at hand.
However, many people get discouraged because it’s not happening right away. Our attention focuses at one task at a time. So, peep what I am about to say next.
How To Be Confident Throughout The Day
Your sensational smile will improve your confidence instantly. Open up your teeth, and chase it up with a smile. Then, you’ll find yourself to be more happier about the little things. It will get your nerves jumping. Therefore, being happy is literally everything to having confidence. So, smile each and everyday.
2. Surround Yourself With The Right People
Mind-blowing tip. Feed your success with lions not sheep. Therefore, the only way to win is by surrounding yourself with winners. The winners will literally break the rules to win or do whatever it takes. They will act tireless and confused because of how hungry they’re. On the contrary, it will improve your will power.
3. Complete Daily Tasks
Completing daily tasks feels better than slaying a dragon. Fire breathing, tooth edged, scaly bodily, dragon. Meanwhile, the tasks are apart of a daily routine. The more you complete, the more things you will want to knock out the way. It’s like beating a new level in a video game. The more levels you beat, the more you will want to play the game. In short, you should always focus on completing tasks and time management.
I hope these ways served you well and you will be using them to gain confidence in your everyday life and continue to crush your goals.
We all need change for the better and using change can implement the way we see ourselves and our lives. For example, there is a current crisis going on in the world at the moment. Voices must be heard and we must adapt.
So, why does change so hard to overcome and for us to be different?
Although, it may be hard to change, it’s for the better.
Tired of the same cycle and being in the same place you were last year. You want better for your life and to do the things you don’t want to do.
Or else is the life we are living even worth the sacrifice?
This is some motivation for those who need it during this hardship we are currently facing.
Change your diet, your morning routine, friends,etc.
Change the things that aren’t helping you grow as a person.
Although, it might be hard, we have 6 months left of this year.
I have fallen victim to this many times before and want to change my life for the better. Change starts with ourselves and then we can carry on with the future we are trying to build for ourselves.
What I am saying might sound redundant but its worthwhile.
Change the way you see and live your life for the better. It will be worth the effort.
In other terms, we think it means our dreams have been delayed or paused. So, does it really mean that?
Going after our dreams like you’re chasing the school bus is one of a kind. Literally, nobody can tell you right from wrong when you’re pursuing something big. Their input has no say in whatever you’re trying to accomplish. So, what’s the issue? There is no pausing on our dreams. Time and time again, people have done the impossible to complete their dreams.
Michael Jordan, Oprah Winfrey, Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, etc.
All of them went after it like a dog chasing a stick. Just cause there dreams weren’t being met, doesn’t mean it’s a denial to their dreams. Delay does not mean denial.
Let me ask you this. Have you ever been so close at completing a task and just quit? You sat there and freeze. So, the call to action is why? Getting active in our dreams is everything in this lifetime. Diving in and risking it is better than wishing what would happen. Although, it might feel comfortable, it’s worth it all in the end.
I love the feeling of people reaching their dreams and completing tasks they dream their whole lives for. Feels like The Creation of Adam is helping you to the other side.
Don’t wait for anyone and literally just go out and challenge the narrative. Then, they will wonder how you do it and will ask how it was possible to complete.
I know life gets busy for everyone but you can never forget the big picture. Never forget your why. The reason behind your hard work and everything you do.
Life has many different phrases and meanings. As a result, we spend so much time how to live and how to truly live.
We sometimes get too hard on ourselves if we aren’t fulfilling our potential to the full extent. But, why is that?
Then, we start to wonder what type of life we are living. Or are we doing enough.
Well, I am here to tell you that.
These ten signs will tell you how well you’re actually doing in life.
Now, let’s see you have all 10.
Although these signs may be common, it never hurts to look them over.
1.You have a roof over your head
Having a roof over your head is a big accomplishment and feels really good. Some people are homeless, in prison, live in horrible living conditions, but a roof is all the merrier. Be thankful you have a place to call home each and everyday while, some don’t get to experience that luxury.
2. You ate today
Like I said before. A third of the world’s population doesn’t get to eat like you do today. People have to wait weeks or several days just to have their first meal. How does that sound? Awful, right? Be thankful you had something to fill you up no matter what dish it was. Then, you’ll start to appreciate the meals you eat in a given period. To clarify, every meal you eat should be taken into consideration and you should be thankful to eat it.
3. You have a good heart
You wish the best others and the people around you. The world isn’t sunshine and rainbows. It’s a corrupt and nasty place where anything can happen at any given moment. So, always be the bigger person because you might make someone’s day. For instance, you may see a kid getting bullied for an odd reason.
4. You wish good for others.
Being good to other people and wishing good only brings positive energy and good karma. What’s the point of being bitter or hating on someone? It’s just ugly. Always uplift others and be supportive of one another. Nonetheless, getting jealous of others isn’t the right thing to do. Always be happy for them no matter the circumstance. So, you feel good and they feel good.
5. You have clean water.
Many people around the world struggle to have clean water. So, you’re lucky to drink water that’s not polluted with bacteria and germs. It makes life more enjoyable and thankful. Then, you’ll start to realize you have it better than most people.
6. Someone cares for you.
First, someone cares for you. No matter who you’re someone cares for you. If you’re going through something, you can reach out to me at anytime and tell me how you’re feeling. I want everyone to reads my blog to succeed whether it’s a small win or a big win. So, never forget you’re alone.
7. You strive to be better
Get out of your comfort zone. You always have to strive to be better than you were yesterday and attempt to try something new. Or else what’s the point? We only have only shot at life and if you’re being “still” you’re going nowhere.
8. You have clean clothes
Clothes are a necessity to this life but having clean clothes makes life more enjoyable. Many people on earth don’t have the access to clean clothes and you should be thankful you can wash your clothes. So, next time you complain about clothes, think about people who don’t have the resources to wash them.
9. You have a dream
Dream big and keep striving to be great. Dreams are achievable and possible in this world. Never let anyone tell you different. The more hate you receive is just more motivation to actually accomplish the goal at hand. Then, you will finally start seeing results. Although, hard work has to come with that prayer.
10. You are breathing.
You woke up and have another day at life. That’s the biggest blessing you will receive in this life. On the contrary, don’t take this for granted. Subsequently, many people would love to have what you currently have in this life. Because you will have more gratitude for being alive and well.
Finally, Be thankful for the little things. To others, they’re the most important. So, never dwell on what you have. Nevertheless, always be thankful for everything.