Why Do You Do It?

It’s easily to be in the midst of everything that goes on in the world from your personal life to politics.

But one thing that’s certain is the way we do things.

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The question of why we do we do things that we do each and everyday. It’s on our minds from when wake up and when we go to sleep.

The word “why” brings a paradigm shift of a pattern we see everyday. You get the gist of what I’m saying now? We do certain things so we can be remembered forever.

The current moment that you’re reading this will inspire you to look at your everyday life and question what your life is compromised of. Is a boring 9-5 job you have been settling for a couple years? Is it going to college to get a degree? Is it working on skills that will help you in the future?

This relates to the purpose of life. Or should I say your purpose. There’s a clear chance that we do it because love to do it or to be remembered.

I can easily ask myself why I do things each and everyday. Do I like to ask this consistent question? Hell no. But it’s what keeps me going and how I perceive everyday life.

Whatever the case may be, you need to keep working on what you love do. There’s a saying, “ if you don’t build your dreams, you will be helping someone else build theirs”

Now.. hearing that makes me think, “Why would I spend my hard earned time doing that, this ain’t free labor” I’m trying to win from now till my last breath.

Never do anything for money, that will just push you back and make hot miserable. Materialistic items are never worth the investment for the long term.

I’d rather buy a Mcchicken cause I love to eat not to show off or to impress. But who am I sounding like I’m rich, it’s only a Mcchicken after all.

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You Can Have Fun & Be Successful

There’s a myth where you have to work all the time to see progression & results. Well, to a point that’s correct but also incorrect. We can’t spend all of time doing hard work because we will eventually burn out. That burnout will cause us stress and we will feel unmotivated to other things throughout the course of the day. So, the only option we have is to have fun.

There’s nothing wrong with having fun and living your life. Go out for a drink, talk to that girl, go jet ski. Whatever your definition of fun is, do it! Whether you’re 18,23, or 30. We see people wasting their lives away going for a dream. Now, it’s understandable for why they do that but they’re delaying their gratification. Cut yourself some slack. We aren’t robots or artificial intelligence.

Here’s a little episode from a podcast that shows my reasoning on why you need to take breaks & to enjoy life. It’s very possible to be successful and to have fun at the same time.

Click the link below & I’ll explain why it is:

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The Power of Dreaming Big

They say dream so big you can move mountains.

That’s exactly what you should do. Dream big as the eye can see. Positive speaking, mantras, affirmations all come with dreaming big and the desire of accomplishing a feat worth a lifetime.

If you’re not speaking positively in everything you do it’s embarrassing to yourself & everyone around us. We all know we can’t speak positive affirmations all the time & have to be realistic.

On the contrary, what’s the worst that can happen by dreaming big? As big as the largest building in the world & dream higher than Wiz Khalifa. Literally, he’s high as a kite everyday.

No matter the ethnicity, race, history you have, dreams are for the believers. The craziest people in history had dreams & guess what? None believed them. Now, some of the most iconic people in history & role models for some.

Have to put some work behind that prayer. If not, it’s just a thought flowing in thin air. Ask yourself these questions as you go through out your daily life,

Dream like you’re Peter Pan except you’re not in Neverland. As cheesy as this might sound. Have to keep on keep going.

Dream big as if you’re going to die tomorrow.

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Cut Out Small Minded People

Cut Out Small Minded People.

The people who will dwell on your dreams.

Now, cut out those ignorant folks.

The folks who want to “support” you.

So, find people who are open minded.

Cliche as it sounds, you just have too.

Subsequently, those are subjective to change can your life.

Then, life will start to progress drastically.

Press your inner subconscious to see why people think this way.

So, why is that?

Now, humans are more inclined to do the hard things.

Thus, making them closed minded and cutting off their true ambitions.

Small minded people are dream killers.

Cut Out Small Minded People.

There are people who are realistic in their dreams and others that think something is impossible to achieve.

Although, there are things that seem impossible in this world, its very possible.

So, what may be the cause of this?

Cut Out Small Minded People

Disband Close-Minded People

I will tell you.

Its from people who they hang around and listen too.

Then, their thoughts will start to rub off on you.

Don’t let this be a continuous cycle.

You will meet people like this in every corner of your life.

So I would suggest is how you deal with it.

Deal with it in a professional manner and wisely.

Now, not everyone acts like this, its just certain people.

Its like a plague to be around these people and it hurts when they multiply.

This is a call to action to not to listen to people with inflexible attitudes and traits.

Understand it gets annoying after awhile.

You will constantly hear it and nothing about it will change.

So, do me a favor and let those people go.

Those people won’t be in your life forever and won’t offer much but a bad attitude.

The worst thing in life is a bad attitude one may say.

New Year’s Resolutions

New Year’s Resolutions.

So, welcome to the New Year. A year of blessings and gratitude. Now, we all have goals to attempt to accomplish. Then, we will put all of our effort in attaining those goals. So, let’s get straight to it.

First, have a list of goals that you want to achieve. It may be losing weight, getting a raise, or developing better friendships. Once you have that list, measure a time a frame for those goals. Essentially, the time it should take to achieve those goals. So, make a time schedule for every task leading up to the goals you want.

Resolutions for New Year’s

New Year’s Resolutions.

New Year's Resolutions

In addition, of making goals that are measure. They have to be attainable. For example, you can’t just aim for a 100k year goal without hitting $100-1000 first. Not saying its impossible, just make sure its achievable to your standard. So, make it clear and reasonable. I am in no way shape or form discouraging you. Just be realistic.

Now, we are getting closer. Close like we are in a marathon race. So, we have figured out goal setting and organization. Then, comes time-relevancy. This means relevant in a specific time frame for goals you want to achieve.

So, you can achieve the goal in that specific period. Always make sure to see how far you have came from the beginning. Attack the goals like a pack of wolves. Hungry and ferocious for more. Now, make sure they’re relevant.

Relevant in terms of objectives you want to achieve. Make sure they align with your values and long-term goals. Ask yourself why the goal is important to you and how it help you get closer to your goal. Then, you will truly see why the goal is important to you. Follow these goals for the new year.

Big Plans for 2021

Big Plans for 2021.

Now, we approach the end of 2020.

A crazy year filled with wild events and memories that will last forever.

Jumping into the new year, we always have big goals and aspirations.

So, there isn’t a reason why we can’t accomplish those goals.

Plan early for the New Year so you have a head start ahead of the competition.

Attack those goals like a pack of hungry wolves trying to feast on their prey.

I always tend to make multiple goals for myself and dream big.

Even though, they’re big, I am in my 20s.

These are the years I sacrifice a lot for freedom and what I truly want out of life.

Big plans for 2021 is the name of the game.


The Year of 2021

Next, you can have all the goals and plans you want, but you need to track them.

Big Plans for 2021

I can often describe myself as a perfectionist at times but, not this year.

Looking to get more out of myself and increase my productivity and my personal brand.

Then, I want to make a passive income goal out of it to fund my investments.

So, I am already being like a wolf in a sense.

Attacking and preparing to strike.

There wouldn’t be a point of me telling you all of this if I wasn’t going to do it.

I will put my all into what I want to achieve.

Please show other people what you can do and do the unthinkable.

Others will just “agree” with your goals but I’d rather show them instead.

In the midst of adversity, we will see who comes up on top.

Then, we can have bragging rights for who stuck to their word.

I know I will stick to my word and accomplish every goal I have.

Will you?

Am I Inspired?

Am I Inspired?

Now, this is the question you need to ask yourself when you wake up in the morning.

Ready to seize the day in full-force and attack any problem in your way.

Although, that question all starts with us.

Asking yourself this question will be the sole source of motivation that keeps you hungry throughout the day.

So, ask yourself this, how can you work doing what you enjoy?

Be as inspirational as a dog chasing a squirrel.


This pandemic has showed me alot about the truth about work ethic.

Working hard enough isn’t enough at all.

Grinding our asses off will set the tone of how our week can play out.

It asks the question.

Am I Inspired?
Curosity of Inspiration

Next, use that question to fuel you.

So, you don’t have to go repeating the same mistakes as before.

Even though, you will ask that question a lot, remember it.

Am I inspired?

A hunting pack of wolves never questions inspiration.

They kill anything in their way of their hunt.

So, you need to do the same.

Destroy anything anything that’s in the way of your goals.

Then, everything will start to make sense.

Next, it will apply to areas of your life.

School, work, fitness, etc.

We don’t even realize it but it will work for us.

Then, you will feel on top of the world.

Lastly, there will be days where we feel down.

Down physically and mentally.

Now, I am not scaring you.

I am just letting you know what might happen.

It will keep us humble and grounded.

Meanwhile, your friends will be struggling to find inspiration.

So, do everything in your power to make that true.

Find and never it let it go.

We often find inspiration in everyday things believe it or not.

Escape the Rat Race

Escape The Rat Race

According to Forbes magazine, on average at least 78% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. Which means, they rely on a paycheck to survive on a day to day basis.

See, that’s the problem. That statistic sounds awful enough and never want to be at that point where I have to work everyday just to barely make ends mean.

We have the power to make something for ourselves just from a laptop. All you really need is a laptop and a wifi connection.

I want to work as hard as I can these next few years of my life so I am not apart of that statistic.

Escape the rat race and create the life you want to live.

We were all made for greatness but we cannot become greatness itself if we don’t work hard enough. Create, create and create.

Create something that provide value to people’s lives will get you where you want to be in life. That’s how you will get ahead in this life.

It could impactful, entertaining, inspiring, etc. whatever the case might be just make sure it has value and brings value to the lives of others.

No More Wasted Days

No more wasted days.

Life is short.

It’s so short, it can pass you in the blink of an eye.

So, what do you do?

Make every single day count.

No more wasted days.

Even though, it doesn’t seem short, it really is.

Day by day and we are already in 2020.

Its funny how I keep seeing memories pop up from things I did 4 years ago.

Yes, I said 4 years ago.

Now, what does that tell you?

Subsequently, make the days count.

 No More Wasted Days

Whether they’re bad days, good days, or a combination of both.

You just can’t let anymore days go by.

Moreover, we can’t get them back.

Cherish the moments you’re most vulnerable and most happy.

That’s when life will start to feel good.

Life is a series of events that gradually change over time.

Then, we see a pattern happen and it foresee the course of our life.

I may sound repetitive but, its true indeed.

So, all the things you dreamed of, just start it now.

If its a blog, a YouTube channel, an eCommerce store, etc.

Humans never know their last day on this planet.

So, why not do the things that bring us the most joy.


I want everyone I know to each what they did with their lives.

Do not settle for a life you don’t want.

Find your passion and do the things you love.

We are just characters in a game called life.

Our existence is to create, love, and live it freely.

So, don’t let anyone ruin your 86,400 seconds.

If you didn’t know, there are 86,400 seconds in day.

Just because someone ruins 30 of those seconds, doesn’t mean your day is ruined.

Keep your head up.


Be positive for what life has to offer.

Keep spreading love and joy.