All we really have is ourselves. We indeed are selfish people with egos the size of pillars and are only motivated in our own self-interests. The person closest to you doesn’t care or the one next to you, all I can say is all you have is yourself in the end. What I am saying may seem strange but its only just you in the end because you’re the only person living the life that you currently desire so whatever you’re doing that’s holding you back, I suggest you stop having that feeling and go chase what you truly deserve. Yes what I said is self-motivated because that’s what we are as people, self-motivated. Nobody is else is going to do us for us but ourselves and most of the time its just us so why be worried if you’re alone or sad because its only you and just you in the end.